Reality and Myth conversation... Exam Nerves As a very wise person ( Renzie Hanham) who works in the area of " Performance Under Pressure" says frequently "This is a Reality and Myth conversation." Reality is where we are... myth is where we want to be; how we want to be; where we think we need to be. Where we get stuck, he says, is in the GAP between the two. We become stuck when the focus of our thinking is on what is missing , or what we can't do, in order to achieve "the myth". Anxiety, procrastination, and avoidance can begin to invade our way of being. We can lose the ability to see steps forward as part of the solution because the leap to the "myth" situation is overwhelming. In order to move through the gap learning to be "comfortable being uncomfortable" can become a huge asset. Accepting where we are, enables us to create an achievable set of steps in front of us and move from our stuck thinking and begin the process of c...